Leo Dasilva Explains Why Men No Longer Toast Women on the Streets
Former Big Brother Naija housemate Leo Dasilva has weighed in on why the once-common practice of approaching women in public — popularly known as “toasting” — has faded in Nigeria. In a post online, the reality TV star reportedly attributed the shift to modern dating habits, changing social expectations and men’s growing wariness of being misread.
Why Dasilva Thinks Street Toasting Died
According to reports, Dasilva observed that fewer men now walk up to women on the streets to express romantic interest, a routine that was once a familiar part of Nigerian social life. He linked the decline to the popularity of dating apps and the fear among men of being branded creeps or harassers.
The reality star, who is married with children, reportedly noted that younger men now prefer to meet potential partners through dating platforms and social media, where the risk of public rejection or misinterpretation is lower. He argued that the boundary between confident interest and perceived harassment has become harder to navigate, making men more careful in public spaces.
Dasilva also reportedly acknowledged that women today are more vocal about their boundaries — a change he framed as positive, even though it has made the old-style street approach more difficult. His remarks quickly generated debate, with some users recalling an era when approaching a stranger was seen as normal or even charming, while others welcomed the change as progress towards more respectful, consent-driven interactions. He has reportedly not addressed the mixed reactions.
Leo Dasilva Ignites Debate On Modern Dating
Dasilva rose to national attention through Big Brother Naija, a platform that has turned many housemates into influential commentators whose opinions on relationships and lifestyle routinely trend across Nigerian social media. Remarks like his often become flashpoints for wider conversations about how technology is reshaping courtship.
The debate his comments triggered reflects a broader, ongoing discussion about dating culture — how apps have changed the way people meet, and how heightened awareness of consent is redefining what counts as an acceptable approach. Whether viewed as the loss of a tradition or a welcome evolution, the topic clearly resonates with a wide audience.
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