Simisanya Urges Singles to Ask Genotype, Habit Questions Early

Simisanya Tells Singles to Ask About Genotype, Cooking and Online Behaviour Before Dating

Nigerian influencer Simisanya has stirred debate online after listing the questions she believes singles must ask before committing to a relationship. Speaking on an episode of the Talk Your Talk podcast, the wife of well-known videographer Femi Dapson argued that compatibility stretches far beyond romance and should be tested during the talking stage.

From Genotype Checks to “Are You a Troll?” — Simisanya’s Talking-Stage Checklist

Top of her list was medical compatibility. Simisanya insisted that intending couples should establish each other’s genotype early, asking directly whether a prospective partner is AA, AS or SS, so that neither party faces painful decisions if the relationship later heads towards marriage. Raising the subject at the start, she said, spares couples the panic of discovering incompatibility too late.

The influencer also urged honesty about everyday habits that quietly wreck relationships. Using herself as an example, she admitted she does not know how to cook and said people like her should declare it upfront, even suggesting singles ask whether a potential partner expects freshly made meals before things get serious.

Social media conduct featured heavily in her advice too. She encouraged people to find out whether a prospective partner constantly fights strangers on Twitter, trolls others, picks arguments in Instagram comments, or shows aggressive tendencies — questions she believes reveal a person’s true character long before commitment.

Reactions have been split. Many users agreed that genotype, finances, values and temperament deserve early discussion, while others felt some of her questions were too blunt for the talking stage.

Why Genotype and Compatibility Talk Resonates With Nigerian Audiences

Conversations about genotype carry particular weight in Nigeria, where awareness campaigns have long encouraged couples to confirm compatibility before marriage to reduce the risk of sickle cell disorder in children. That context helps explain why Simisanya’s remarks travelled quickly beyond entertainment circles.

Relationship segments on podcasts have also become reliable conversation starters in the Nigerian online space, with clips routinely dissected across Twitter and Instagram. Whether audiences endorse or push back against her checklist, Simisanya’s comments have reopened a familiar debate about honesty, expectations and how much couples should reveal before falling in love.

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“Find Out If They’re Stingy, Can Cook, a Troll or Have an SS Genotype Before You Date Them” — Influencer Simisanya Advises Single Pringles Influencer Simisanya and wife to popular videographer, Femi Dapson has advised singles to use the talking stage to ask practical questions that can reveal compatibility before committing to a relationship, rather than waiting until marriage plans begin. Speaking on a recent episode of Talk Your Talk podcast, Simisanya stressed that conversations before dating should go beyond romance and cover important issues such as genotype, personality, lifestyle and values. According to her, one of the first things people should find out is each other’s genotype to avoid future heartbreak. “You get some things people can take. People should ask, ‘Are you AS or SS? Are you AA?’ So that if we actually date and later decide we want to marry, we won’t start running around when we discover we’re not compatible.” She also encouraged people to ask about everyday habits that could affect a relationship, including domestic expectations. “Those are talking-stage questions. Ask, ‘Do you like fresh food?’ Because I don’t know how to cook, so we might not be compatible.” Simisanya added that a person’s behaviour on social media can also reveal a lot about their character, saying it is important to know if a potential partner constantly engages in online fights or trolling. “Do you always go and fight on Twitter? Do you b£at girls? Are you a banga boy? Are you always on Instagram commenting and fighting? Are you a troll?” She further advised people to pay attention to how a potential partner treats others online, especially women, and to ask whether they are naturally generous or stingy before entering a relationship. “Do you normally insult girls that ask questions like, ‘What do you bring to the table?’ Are you stingy? Are you generous? Those are very important questions.” According to Simisanya, asking these questions early helps both people understand whether they are truly compatible and can prevent unnecessary conflicts or disappointments later in the relationship.

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